Happened to come across an interesting
title saying “14 Things a woman expect from a man”… and went through the
powerpoint video…before I say more on it, let me jot them down…
- Candle Light Dinner on her bday
- Make her smile when she is upset.
- Be with her in difficult times
- Don’t grow beard
- Come home early and spend time with her
- Don’t make her angry
- Never ask her to stop shopping.
- Help her in cooking.
- Go for a long walk once a week.
- Treat her like a kid.
- Surprise her with beautiful gifts.
- Reply to her msgs even if you are busy
- Manage time for family outing.
- Never say “This will make you fat”.
Now…How far it is true…from a woman’s
perspective…I don’t know. I am not a representative of all women…But yes, being
a woman, I can be a representative of those women who share my characteristics
and ideologies…Who think like me and feel like me… To be more precise… A woman
who is extremely and emotional deep within but hardcore rock from outside… Its
true, I don’t show emotions much outside…even if it is love or hatred, joy or
sorrow…I tend to keep it within me… Wonder, how many around me would know, what
am I actually thinking or feeling at any particular point of time…
Since reading this post…the revolting
mind started saying… “I DISAGREE” … Maybe, some of them might be close enough,
but I would like to amend all of them in my way…to suit my expectation list. ;)
I started thinking…what would be those things that I would expect from a
man…Ofcourse, those would be the exact things, I would like to see in my
son..when he grow up… Thus I came up with the below…
- A sweet surprise on any special days…be it anything…even a voice message or a flash mob...a surprise visit or a dinner…a home-made fav dish or fav take-away food…All that I would expect is an “Extra effort taken to surprise to make a day special”… ;)
- Be the reason for my smiles…in joy and sorrow…
- Be my shield during difficult times…Hold my hand and say, “I am right here for you, Don’t worry”. Those words would be more than enough for me to fight any battle.
- Never groom in the way that I would not like; be it in clothes or hairstyle. And pleaseeeeee avoid perfumes that might instigate my allergies…
- Whatever time you come in, spend some time with me to talk to me…
- Make me angry, but do make sure to calm me down too…
- Be with me for shopping and help in choosing what would be best for me…And when it is time to say NO, say that lovingly…
- Try to find time to be around while I cook…just to give me hug or a kiss occasionally…
- Just sit with me…by the beach or the mountain top…
- Respect me like your mother, care for me like your sister, understand and support me like your friend, pamper me like your child and love me like your soulmate…
- Surprise me with beautiful moments…
- Let me know where you are and what r u doing…I wouldn’t want to disturb you when you are busy…
- Make sure you are there for the family… be it for fun or just quality time…
- Frank opinion on how I look and if I am gaining weight, inspire me to lose too… :)
Hehe, I know, I am asking for
toooooo much….But if love is true, why wouldn't someone want to do this... I would for sure... anybody would...But then that is possible...
If and only if…
